Recently because the sports section does not last a whole bathroom break I was forced to read Dear Anderson.. which is like a dear Abby with a Matrix like name for people who ask questions about life. I know bad igebadia for reading this sappy woman stuff but hey I read cosmo when I was younger to better understand woman and upon occasion I read Dear Anderson because I am convinced she is a computer spy.. secretly keeping us trapped in the Matrix... In today being Monday, Febuaray 1rst two questions were asked. The first was I married an addict.. I thought he would love me enough to quit and he didn't... well personally you get no pity from me cause guess what women you cannot fix a man's problems. It is amusing to me because a lot of women I meet love the bad boy, love the messed up guy, love the guy with a ton of baggage and then get surprised that they are not enough. Guess what ladies you cannot fix anyone but yourself. Maybe you should look inside and ask yourself what would make you marry an addict? That is asking for trouble cause darling the only person you can quit anything for is yourself. Trust me... you cannot change for another person.. the change has to be for you so it lasts and it is real. You should leave your husband.. it is that simple.. divorce is not death.. otherwise 50% of the people in this world would be dead. He needs to decide he wants to quit for him. You need to have some confidence and realize you deserve better. It does not have to be emotional in any way shape or form. Sit down with him, explain you love him but you deserve better and until he is able to provide you with what you deserve he needs to find a new place to live. That is the only way because usually addiction comes from undealt with issues inside that he has been able to hide for years.
STOP ENABLING him.. which you are. I am not saying you should not see him. Go on dates but make it very clear that until he has been clean for 6 months and goes to AA meeting he will not be welcome to live with you... The second question was I am not gay but I prefer women.. which is the latest female craze that just confuses guys.. yes hot girls are turning to chicks because they are tired of men who are dicks. First off it took you 6 years to tell a girl you love her? Well there is your first mistake.. you have no balls... and you deserve to get hurt because of that. Being a man is having the balls to stand up and say I like you... and now you don't know what to do when she says she is a lesbian? Really.. cause that is pretty clear to me.. HAVE SOME CONFIDENCE... dear gosh in 6 years she did not fall for you.. even after you told her she rejected you... but no you didn't listen... so she told you she was a lesbian.. and even now you are questioning what to do... seriously wake up, go get laid and get over it cause sometimes in life the people we love do not love us and it sucks.. it is the most horrible thing in the world.. Sometimes it will hurt so bad that you will lay there in your bed unable to move.. but over time it will hurt less... They call me igebadia.. and these are the tales of the penis...fan me: http://facebook.com/cybersweetness
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STOP ENABLING him.. which you are. I am not saying you should not see him. Go on dates but make it very clear that until he has been clean for 6 months and goes to AA meeting he will not be welcome to live with you... The second question was I am not gay but I prefer women.. which is the latest female craze that just confuses guys.. yes hot girls are turning to chicks because they are tired of men who are dicks. First off it took you 6 years to tell a girl you love her? Well there is your first mistake.. you have no balls... and you deserve to get hurt because of that. Being a man is having the balls to stand up and say I like you... and now you don't know what to do when she says she is a lesbian? Really.. cause that is pretty clear to me.. HAVE SOME CONFIDENCE... dear gosh in 6 years she did not fall for you.. even after you told her she rejected you... but no you didn't listen... so she told you she was a lesbian.. and even now you are questioning what to do... seriously wake up, go get laid and get over it cause sometimes in life the people we love do not love us and it sucks.. it is the most horrible thing in the world.. Sometimes it will hurt so bad that you will lay there in your bed unable to move.. but over time it will hurt less... They call me igebadia.. and these are the tales of the penis...fan me: http://facebook.com/cybersweetness
sub me: http://youtube.com/igebadia
follow me: http://twitter.com/igebadia
blogme: http://igebadia.com
PUT ON A SHIRT...
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http://bit.ly/8XVvPR
are you a brand?
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